Why Folding a Towel Opens my Training
"Raise your hand if you have a specific way to fold your towels."
More than 1/2 my attendees raised their hands.
Then, I proudly demonstrated my towel folding expertise and how my husband complies with this technique. [He wisely pick his battles!] This opening was a blast for me and my audience. It was unusual, funny and fun!
I promise there is a point to my towel demonstration.
Here’s the point I made:
Though I insist my husband fold towels MY WAY, my intention with the attendees was to convey, "my way is NOT the only way" with the material I am teaching at this session.
Basically, they have agency. That was an important point I needed to communicate.
Speech openings can be a blast. Heather, a client, referenced Winnie the Pooh, MaryAnn quoted her mother, Angela told a personal story, Lori-Anne shared a mythological story with a moral that set the perfect context to her presentation.
Priya Parker, author of The Art of Gathering, writes that “openings” should be a pleasant shock therapy that grabs people’s attention. But keep in mind, your opening sets the context for the rest of your speech.
With the multitudes of ways to open your speech, presentation or meeting. What will your opening be?
Talk Tips for a Memorable Opening
1. Align your opener with your key message.
Your opening isn’t just a hook — it’s a setup for the core takeaway. Choose a personal story, vivid image, or question that points straight to the main idea you want your audience to remember.
2. Engage the audience immediately.
People like to participate. Whether you ask them to raise their hands, reflect on a quick prompt, or make a choice, active participation breaks the ice and focuses their attention to you and your speech.
3. Surprise and delight.
Humor, props, an intriguing question, or a brief, unexpected anecdote will help you stand out. It doesn’t have to be flashy — even a small twist can make your audience feel like they’re in for something special.
4. Make a Connection.
Your opening is a handshake. Set an engaging tone that signals you are relatable and are taking them somewhere worthwhile.
Whatever style you choose, a strong opening is an invitation and keeps them there for the rest of the ride.
