When the Mic Failed, So Did I (Whoops!)
Sometimes, things happen. I stepped up to the mic and Murphy's Law threw me a fast one. The microphone malfunctioned and a glass shattered right beside me.
And then, my speech derailed.
My brain emptied.
Discombobulation personified.
Three seconds? Three hours? I still don't know.
I'm a professional speaking coach, and not a single word was readily available. I vividly remember the loud silence.
Could my mortifying, sudden mummification have been avoided? Most likely.
If hindsight had a voice, it would be mocking.
"Do as I Say, Not as I Do"
Daniel McGinn writes in his book, Psyched Up that studies show people who use a well-conceived and consistent routine perform better than those who don't.
-Tony Robbins, speaker and life coach, jumps on a miniature trampoline before going on stage.
-Stephen Colbert high-fives his team backstage.
-LeBron James forms 330 with his fingers - the area code of Akron.
Me?
I teach it in every training I deliver.
I insist it makes a difference.
And it does.
Do I have a routine? Absolutely.
Did I practice my two-minute routine before being frozen in time and space by shining glass shards and a mic that forgot how to mic?
You already know the answer. NO.
TALK TIP FOR EVERYONE INCLUDING ME!
1. Do a Mic Check. In fact, do it every time.
2. Exit the room if possible:
Do something to release physical tension. Scrunch all your muscles, from your eyelids to your toes, and let it all go.
Use the power of your breath to settle your nervous system.
Hum happy birthday to warm-up your vocal chords.
Call upon your "inner-coach" to set an intention and give yourself a rousing, "Let's go!"
By being deliberate with this two-minute practice, you've recalibrated your state of being. You are now more capable of being present and adaptable [even when the mic fails or the glass breaks].
Now you're ready - let's hear that awesome speech.